How you take care of your appearance can indirectly influence your success. In your career but also in your love life. Many men underestimate the value of how they groom themselves. It costs them too much time, they don't care or they don't think they are handsome enough. The latter is a big fallacy because you may not be able to do anything about how handsome you are but you can do something about how good you look. If you take good care of your appearance you become instantly more attractive.
But how can your appearance contribute to the success you have in life? It sounds a bit like you will win the lottery next week if you wear a tight haircut every day from now on. It's not like that, of course. Although, of course, there is always a small chance that you will win the lottery.
Grooming increases your self-confidence
Every time you take care of your appearance you take care of yourself. Normally you take care of something you love. And that is exactly what you unconsciously teach yourself when you take care of your appearance. Loving yourself.
When you spend more time on your external care every day, your love for yourself slowly grows. You send a signal to the subconscious every time. You learn to accept yourself more. On top of that, you are more likely to receive more compliments when you look well-groomed. It all adds up.
As your self-confidence increases you will automatically be more successful in everyday life. Forget all the opening phrases and conversation techniques you have learned. During a date or job interview your insecurity will show sooner or later. Someone who loves himself comes across as more convincing and daring. Something that largely contributes to success.
It makes you more assertive
This works the same way as your self-confidence. If you are committed and involved in something you are going to value it more.
This also works on yourself. The more value you begin to place on yourself the less tolerant you will be of people who cross your boundaries. It makes you more powerful as a person in every way.
External grooming increases your status
Although we would all prefer to think status is unimportant, it still holds great appeal.
A man who looks immaculately groomed shows that he can take care of himself and that he is knowledgeable. He is in control. He is an educated man. It creates the illusion that someone has time and money to invest in a well-groomed appearance.
More control over your life thanks to external grooming
By control, of course, we mean the control you have over your life and the responsibility you take. By taking more care of your appearance, you are already taking the first step and taking more control.
When you make this a daily routine, your self-confidence will grow and you will stand out more as a man because you will develop your own style. That will help you dare to take more control and walk your own path to success in the things you do.
Nothing to lose
We challenge you to give it a try. What exactly do you have to lose? The only investment you have to make is a little more time in front of the mirror and in the shower. The rest will work itself out. Afraid people will think you're vain? You've already taken the first step by not caring about that.